“You navigate this relationship as the dutiful child.”
You navigate this relationship as the dutiful child. [Name] processes disappointment as criticism, even when nothing's gone wrong. The harder you try to please them, the more the goalposts move. You've learned to pre-soften any news that might land badly.
The conversation about [your own life choices] is the room neither of you wants to enter. You both know it's there. You've both known for years. The avoidance has shaped how you talk to each other entirely.