“You navigate this relationship as the dutiful child.”
You navigate this relationship as the dutiful child. Dad processes disappointment as criticism, even when nothing's gone wrong. The harder you try to please him, the more the goalposts move. You've learned to pre-soften any news that might land badly.
The conversation about your own life choices is the room neither of you wants to enter. You both know it's there. You've both known for years. The avoidance has shaped how you talk to each other entirely.